Pseudo Morality in Sexuality
Tuesday, May 31st, 2011
Sex is one of the most beautiful and motivating passions inspired in all living systems and in humans particularly it is mixed with a very beautiful synchronization biologically and psychologically. In fact, the very existence of this universe and life on this planet earth is due to this indispensable passion aroused in the living creatures. Imagine a time when all living creatures both human and non human decide to abstain from the gratification of this passion and see what is to happen to this beautiful earth thereafter. So, undoubtedly this is a passion so divine, so potential and inevitable that no creature can honestly deny its presence and promotion.
But how many of us humans have been honestly and sincerely engaged in the gratification of this heavenly passion? Very few indeed! We, at least in some parts of the globe, have assumed a very unscientific, unreasonable sense of pseudo morality in our view of things related to sex. We cannot deny this passion. But at the same time when it comes to discussions on, even remote references to, or illustrative texts, or visual stuff of any sort either in televisions or movies on sex themes, most of us frown our foreheads and withdraw into ourselves as if we were cowards, avoiding a most vibrant situation where a very successful intellectual outburst could have been done.
This is some kind of pseudo morality. We want sex and at the same time we are not ready to accept it openly and publicly, on the other hand we very vehemently criticize it and even in front of our partner we hide the truth and exhibit some kind of inhibitions, whereby being dishonest and disloyal not only to this divine passion, but to the very source of it. How many of us are ready to enjoy sex with its maximum potential, the fullest energy sources it offers? A simple question. How many of us have been able to enjoy nudity of the partner in its openness and integrity? How many of us have been able to be nude ourselves honestly in front of our partners? How many of us have been able to impart or imbibe a sincere kiss to or from the partner? How many of us have been able to enjoy the warmth and love of a hug from the partner? In the warmth and safety of the tight embrace of the partner we actually strike a divine accord between not only two bodies, but two souls, in assimilation of the very existence of the two otherwise divergent entities.
Sex is a divine passion, an experience which has to be assimilated by each partner engaged in its performance, without being inhibited by any obstacles. It is not a mere biological necessity, but the thirst of the soul for being in complete resonance and harmony with the participants. Accept the divinity and sanctity about it and then with full understanding of the partner, engage in it as if you were in the sanctum sanctorum of a shrine, prostrate yourself both bodily and emotionally at the holy feet of the divine entity that is in front of you, and be in perfect union with the whole experience and then you are in a virtual heaven on earth, quite oblivious of all the tensions and strains, allowing yourselves to be transported to sublime heights of joy unbounded and unlimited.
Even today, in the age of much sophistication and scientific and technological advancement, there are many orthodox and conventional societies where sex is looked down upon with false notions, and through the eyes of pseudo moral values and ethical constraints. Right from childhood onwards, sex can be included in the curriculum of students and both from parents and teachers alike children can be allowed to learn a lot of unknown vistas of sex related knowledge within the frame work of the family values and socially bound ethical and moral ideals, without the least sabotaging the existing foundations of human relationships. The parents, educationists, social workers, teachers and all those concerned should take part equally in their responsibility of imparting the right kind of education and information to children in matters of sex so that a great danger of the younger generation being led astray into untoward jungles of social aberrations can be avoided and a better, more responsible future generation can be moulded.
When I speak about the candid explorations into the ocean of sex, it should not be construed that it is a clarion call for the so called vicious and perverted gratification of the urge for libido. As everyone is well aware of the myriads of sources available around us through the printed and visual media, the internet and all such modern outlets where this divine passion is being distorted for the hidden agenda of commercialization, there is every chance of our younger generation going off the track, ending up in undesirable and even dangerous vortexes of evils. In order to avoid such situations happening to the younger lot, the only safe and healthy course of action is introducing the need for sexual education into their curriculum, thus making them more morally and socially accountable to themselves and the world at large.